Embracing the Lavender Girl Lifestyle: A Soft Minimalist Approach to Mindful Living
- Astrid van Essen
- Jun 3
- 4 min read
I’m not one for trends, but now and then, I'm happy to make an exception! :-) The “Lavender Girl” aesthetic is one of those things. It’s less about a passing style and more about a feeling: soft, slow, and connected to nature. Think muted purples and creams, loose linen, dried flowers on windowsills, and little rituals that bring calm into the everyday.
It pairs beautifully with how I try to live my life: intentional, seasonal, and grounded in botanical things.
This gentle aesthetic feels like home, whether it’s a simmer pot bubbling away in the background or a handmade diffuser on the shelf.
What Is the Lavender Girl Aesthetic?
The “Lavender Girl” lifestyle has gained popularity on Pinterest and TikTok, but it’s not just visual fluff.
At its heart, it’s about softness—emotionally, visually, and in how we structure our days.
It celebrates:
Pastel and earth-toned colours (especially lavender, sage, cream, and clay)
Natural textures like linen, dried flowers, and clay
Slow living rituals—tea, lighting incense, herbal steam
A calm, curated home that feels lived-in but thoughtful
Soft Minimalism: The Aesthetic’s Foundation
This isn’t about empty white rooms or harsh decluttering. Soft minimalism is about keeping what’s essential, meaningful, and beautiful without excess. It perfectly complements the Lavender Girl vibe.
You’ll often find:
Open shelves with only your favourite ceramics
A single dried lavender stem in a bud vase
Clean, neutral backdrops with botanical details
Natural scents drifting through the room instead of synthetic sprays
10 Beautiful Accessories for a Lavender Girl-Inspired Home
These items combine form and function, creating calming spaces where you want to slow down. I have included a few favourites from my collections, too.
1. Linen Throw or Gauze Curtain
Light, breathable fabric that softens any space. Perfect for breezy windows or quiet reading corners.
2. Concrete Oil Diffuser
→ Concrete Oil Diffuser – Botanical Blueprint
Raw, natural texture with a handmade feel. Just add a few drops of lavender or clary sage.
3. Dried Lavender Bunch
You can keep it in a vase, tuck it into a drawer sachet, or hang it from a peg rail.
4. Simmer Pot Blends
→ Evening Calm or Summer Blend – Simmer & Stir
Evening Calm Simmer Blend
A soothing mix designed to wind down the day and scent your home with gentle herbal notes.
Ingredients:
Dried lavender buds
Chamomile flowers
Rose petals
Clary sage (dried or essential oil–infused botanical)
Lemon balm
Orange peel
Small piece of cinnamon bark (optional warm base note)
Scent Profile: Floral, herbal, calming – perfect for slow evenings, journaling, or after a bath.
Summer Blend Simmer Pot
A bright and uplifting blend to freshen your space with sun-dried herbs and citrus.
Ingredients:
Dried lemon slices
Orange peel
Rosemary sprigs
Mint leaves
Dried calendula
Hibiscus petals
Juniper berries (optional for a tangy, botanical twist)
Scent Profile: Citrusy, herbal, and energising, these herbal blends are perfect for summer mornings or afternoon hosting. Let them fill your home with calming seasonal scents.
5. Soft Grey Concrete Tray
→ Minimalist Oval Tray – Botanical Blueprint
Perfect for candles, crystals, or a curated corner on your vanity.
6. Amber Glass Spray Bottle
Fill with homemade lavender mist and gently scent pillows or linens.
7. Lavender-Tinted Soy Candle
Choose one in a ceramic or frosted glass jar for a vintage feel.
8. Pressed Flower or Herb Artwork
Frame a real lavender sprig or invest in an illustrated botanical print.
9. Handmade Herbal Soap
For the sink, wrap it in paper and tuck it into drawers.
10. Vintage-Inspired Mirror or Trinket Dish
Adds charm and reflects light without overwhelming the space.
Daily Lavender Girl Rituals
These moments help create a sense of intention, no matter how busy life gets:
Morning: open the window, sip lavender or chamomile tea, light a simmer pot
Midday: wipe down surfaces with a lavender-scented mist, rearrange a small vignette
Evening: soften the lights, spritz your pillow, enjoy a quiet bath or read a chapter
Final Thoughts
The Lavender Girl lifestyle isn’t about buying many things—it’s about how your home feels and supports your well-being. It’s soft, grounded, and gentle. By blending it with a minimalist mindset and natural elements, you can create a peaceful retreat that feels uniquely yours.
If you’re looking for pieces that echo this calm energy, I’ve added a few of my favourites from both shops. They’re simple, purposeful, and handmade with care.
5 FAQs About the Lavender Girl Lifestyle
1. Do I need to redecorate my whole home? Not at all. Start small. Maybe a corner, a scent, or a new ritual. It’s about intention, not overhaul.
2. What colours define the Lavender Girl aesthetic? The key tones are lavender, dusty rose, cream, soft sage, pale grey, and earthy beige.
3. Can I live this lifestyle on a budget? Yes! Use what you have—dried flowers, handmade sprays, second-hand linens. It’s more about feeling than price tags.
4. What if I’m not a minimalist? Soft minimalism is about curation, not restriction. Keep what brings calm and joy.
5. Where can I find Lavender Girl-inspired accessories? Check out:→ Simmer & Stir for natural home fragrance blends→ Botanical Blueprint for slow-made concrete homeware
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